I thought I was building a business. Turns out, I’d just built myself a really demanding job.
For a long time, I believed I had a bit of an unfair advantage as a business owner. Unlike many entrepreneurs who start with a passion for a craft or service and then have to wrestle their way through spreadsheets, software, and systems, I came in from the opposite direction. My background was in what I call “business infrastructure”: accounting, IT, process improvement, systems design. The part of running a business that most people dread? That was my comfort zone.
When people in my circles were scrambling to figure out how to send invoices or create SOPs, I was already building dashboards. I knew how to clean up a chart of accounts and automate workflows in my sleep. I felt efficient. In control. Even a little smug, if I’m honest. While others struggled with the unsexy parts of business, I was cruising.
Then I read The E-Myth: The E-Myth Revisited: Why Most Small Businesses Don’t Work and What to Do About It by Michael E. Gerber.

It had been mentioned so often in entrepreneur forums and small business circles that I figured I should see what all the fuss was about. I expected a few useful tips and maybe some gentle reminders. What I didn’t expect was a wake-up call so sharp, I felt like someone had reached through the pages and turned a mirror on me.
The Moment I Realized I Was Just a Technician
The central premise of The E-Myth is simple but powerful: most small business owners are not actually entrepreneurs but rather they’re technicians suffering from an “entrepreneurial seizure”. They start businesses not because they want to build companies, but because they want to keep doing the work they’re already good at. Only on their own terms.
As I read Gerber’s story about Sarah, the pie shop owner who loved baking but got swallowed by the demands of running a business, something clicked. Her story was eerily familiar. Sure, my version of “doing the work” didn’t involve rolling dough or decorating pastries, but I was no different. I wasn’t thinking like an entrepreneur. I was thinking like a technician who happened to be really good at backend operations.
That’s when it hit me: my so-called “advantage” was just a different flavor of the same trap. I wasn’t building a business. I was building a job. And I’d done it so efficiently that I hadn’t even noticed I was still stuck in the doing.
What Actually Makes Someone an Entrepreneur?
Gerber’s breakdown of roles inside a business; Technician, Manager, and Entrepreneur. This completely reframed how I saw myself. The technician is the doer. They’re in their zone when they’re completing tasks, solving problems, and getting things done. This IS my happy place. The manager brings order, structure, and stability. They keep things organized. The entrepreneur, though…that’s the visionary. They ask the big questions. They imagine the future and build systems that can grow without them.
What I’d always considered entrepreneurial, my systems thinking and my love of structure, was managerial at best. More often than not, I was still stuck in technician mode: in the weeds, tackling the task list, staying busy.
Busy feels productive. But busy is not the same as building.
I think a lot of us who come from operations, tech, or admin backgrounds fall into this same trap. We assume that because we’re fluent in the language of business, we must be good at running one. But running a business requires you to step outside the comfort of doing and begin designing. It means letting go of the need to be the most competent person in the room and instead becoming the one who builds the room.
The Invisible Trap of “Being Good at Business”
One of the most revealing sections in The E-Myth described how the pie shop owner delegated her bookkeeping to someone who seemed competent and willing. But instead of building a structure for that delegation—clear expectations, systems, reviews—she simply handed it off and looked away. Eventually, things started falling through the cracks, and the overwhelmed bookkeeper quit.
The result? The owner snapped back into the belief that she had to do everything herself if she wanted it done right. The business became a cage. She was burned out, working 18-hour days, convinced that her business was broken because people kept letting her down.
I’ve seen this happen. I’ve been the person who takes on too much because I think no one else can do it like I can. And I’ve been the person who quietly struggles under the weight of misaligned expectations because no one built the system to support me. That part of the book felt almost uncomfortably familiar.
And it forced me to confront something I hadn’t admitted before: I didn’t start my business just to work. I started it to build something. But I couldn’t build anything of value if I insisted on being involved in every single piece of it.
How I’m Rewiring My Thinking—One Hat at a Time
The biggest change I’ve made since reading The E-Myth is how I approach each day. Instead of diving straight into the task list, I now pause to ask myself which role I’m showing up as: Technician, Manager, or Entrepreneur.
As a Technician, I ask:
- What’s the work in front of me?
- What needs to get done today, step-by-step?
- Where am I feeling friction?
- Is this something only I can do?
As a Manager, I think:
- How can I set up this day to flow better?
- What systems or processes need improvement?
- What am I doing repeatedly that should be standardized?
And as an Entrepreneur, I challenge myself with:
- Where is this business headed long-term?
- What am I building that can grow beyond me?
- What excites me right now—and what scares me?
This triage approach forces me to step out of the grind and actually lead. It reminds me that if I want to serve more people, create a bigger impact, or even just reclaim my time, I need to start thinking like the person who owns the business. Not just the one working in it.
Asking the Harder Questions
Reading The E-Myth didn’t just expose my blind spots. It also invited me to examine them. It made me realize that just because I’m good at doing the work doesn’t mean I should always be the one doing it. In fact, that mindset might be exactly what’s keeping me small.
So I’ll ask you the same uncomfortable question I’ve been sitting with: what if the thing you believe is your strength is actually the ceiling on your growth?
If you love your craft, maybe being a technician is enough. Maybe freelancing or employment makes more sense than building a business around your skillset. But if you truly want to be an entrepreneur, you have to be willing to step into roles that feel uncomfortable. You have to be willing to stop doing everything, and instead, start designing everything.
Building Something That Can Grow Without Me
I’m still working my way through the book, and I imagine I’ll have more to unpack once I finish it. But even now, I’m making changes. I’ve started documenting every task I do, writing simple SOPs even for things I think I’ll “just remember.” This will also help me to offload the work to delegates as I expand the business. I’m challenging myself to look at every part of my business through the lens of scalability.
My long-term vision is to build a bookkeeping company specifically for solopreneurs—
affordable, supportive, and deeply human. But I can’t serve everyone myself. So if that dream is going to come to life, I need systems that deliver the same experience whether I’m serving three clients or three hundred.
Every day, I now ask: what does this look like when it’s not just me?
Because that’s what building a real business requires. And thanks to The E-Myth, I finally see it clearly.
While this post focuses on mindset more than money, the lesson applies to both. True entrepreneurship means designing systems that work — in your operations and your finances.
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